| Recovering & Reclaiming |
My Reflection I heard her voice in springtime's breeze Near quiet ponds in wooded trees She beckoned me, "come look to see, reflections of my soul in thee!" I gazed in the water & saw her daughter a flowered maiden of beauty rare and she was me when young & free & sunbeams danced upon my hair... In waters maze, I watched her change to a Mother filled with Life & Power Her arms embraced a lovers face and children born of wild desire... Then shifting like a sunset sky came a silver witch with laughing eyes a Crone of vision, steeped in wisdom, speaking truths of endless time... With joy I wept as musings came and ancient echoes spoke my name for I was blessed in sacred space awakening to Love's embrace... In Nature's glass 'twas plain to see a changing woman I would be that grace and beauty did reside to weave my life of shifting tides... At last I felt my Spirit rise to dance beneath the moonlit skies for as the mountain and the sea She is the Goddess, mirrored as Me! Lady J - 1986 |


















| Sisters in the Sacred Circle welcome all Recovering & Reclaiming Women! RECOVERY is returning to the authentic self through a transformational journey that alters our consciousness and perception of reality. It is a deep healing process that restores us to a genuine state of health on every level of being.... Physical, Mental, Emotional, Spiritual. RECLAIMING is restoring our oneness with Spirit & Nature, while embracing a way of life that honors our unique mysteries as women, made in the image & likeness of the Goddess. It is a path that celebrates our power, wisdom, & oneness with all things in the great web of life! Many dis-eases, whatever the symptoms, are caused by inner or outer disharmony rooted in delusions of the mind. These mindsets are created by our conditioning in Patriarchy and by living in dysfunctional systems that sever our ability to flow with natural forces & cycles of life. To RECOVER, we must go through a process of reclaiming mind, body & soul by uncovering, discovering & discarding everything that stands in the way of being whole, for only through a process self-examination, amendment, change & transformation, of recovering & reclaiming, can we truly be empowered enough to live authentically and harmoniously in the world. In The Sacred Circle, we utilize the Steps of Recovery while embracing a spiritual path that honors Nature and Spirit to restore the fragmented pieces of our soul lost to us in Patriarchy. Many of us developed mind-sets & grave emotional patterns leading to deterioration of the soul and dysfunctional living, but we are clear that deep healing, change and transformation is possible when we seek a way of living that reconnects us with the divine, with the Earth & with our unique mysteries. Blessed Be |







CALLING ALL WOMEN! The Healing Has Begun! The Sacred Circle has welcomed hundreds of women from all walks of life for 25 years now because reclaiming our unique mysteries as women is vital to our complete recovery, healing, happiness and fulfillment. Every women in the world needs recovery from Patriarchy, on one level or another, because we've all been subjected to the effects of a male-dominated world and need to find our own sense of worth, importance and value in order to heal. Most women struggle all their lives with underlying discomfort, pain or abuses resulting from the underlying beliefs and actions of a patriarchal culture, and this alone produces numerous forms of stress, depression, dis-ease & dysfunctional living. Many sisters come to the circle because they have a void inside they can't seem to fill, even if they've been in therapy or recovery for a long time, have the best education, or have all they need in the material world to keep them comfortable. We understand. Many of us also discovered that a number of "issues" unique to women are overlooked in Twelve Step Programs simply because the program was created by men for men and doesn't focus on issues that relate to women. Even the language of the 12 Steps can be challenging to both men and women at times, especially if they don't relate to patriarchal thinking or systems of patriarchal religion. Because 12 Step Programs unconsciously reinforce images of Patriarchal religion, this can be a great stumbling block to women who struggle with codependency and low self esteem. Also... many addictive women need deeper healing from the abuses of Patriarchy alone, so trying to fit into another patriarchal system, even in recovery, can be one more way to completely sabotage ourselves from the freedom from bondage we are seeking. WE HAVE FOUND THAT NOTHING HAS DONE MORE DAMAGE TO FEMALES THAN PATRIARCHAL RELIGION! NOTHING! A great majority of women don't understand this because they've been enmeshed in Patriarchal systems for so long that it has become a normal way of life to them and they are unable to discern the differences. THERE IS HOPE FOR ALL WOMEN! No matter what our symptoms are: internalized oppression, codependency, obesity, compulsive disorders, depression, chemical imbalances, allergies or addictions to people, work, money, sex, food, alcohol, pills, drugs or other substances, every woman in recovery today must address this core issue and break away from patriarchal mindsets if she really wants to heal her life and live authentically. This can also mean embracing a spiritual path that celebrates who we are as women; one that makes sense, one that mirrors our sacredness; one that helps us recognize our unique values and mysteries in the divine scheme of things. Just like many women today, I too struggled innocently and ignorantly for many years, giving my power away to people, places, things and the numerous beliefs of Patriarchy. My life was filled with shame, confusion, rage, sadness, self-loathing and boredom until I began reclaiming a spiritual tradition and way of life that honored women. This is when everything changed for the better & today I'm the best I've ever been. Recovery & Reclaiming brings the empowerment of an authentic life, a life that mirrors our true values and abilities as women because we learn to integrate our inner life with our outer life to bring authenticity and integrity, and that's why we created 13 Steps in our Circle rather than 12. 13 relates to the Mother Earth, the Moon, and Feminine mysteries. It is a magical number because it corresponds to the 13 lunar cycles that regulate a woman's bleeding cycles and her cycles of fertility. 13 is not divisible and also refers to the right hemisphere of the brain which is the doorway to the soul and connection with divine energies. Since the Goddess is the Soul of Nature, Woman Magic is Earth Magic, and because Nature deals with the powers and cycles of life, sustenance, aging, dying and regeneration, like women, we must all reclaim our natural wisdom and power if we truly want to reclaim our authenticity. Many of us in the Circle have discovered the root cause of our discomfort and dysfunction and that's a gift that frees us in ways never dreamed possible. Some of us also discover that we haven't been seeing ourselves as we truly are, even in our programs, that we've been brainwashed for centuries by the very religions and cultural systems that say they have our best interest at heart. Women have been living a "lying story" for a long time now, enforced by religious myth and the sleeping humanity around them. If we want to heal our lives, we must look for safe places to reconnect and embrace our feminine spirits, divinity, sacredness and ancient wisdom. Many of us in the Circle still attend our recovery meetings on a regular basis and are eternally grateful for the gifts we receive from 12 Step Programs. The Sacred Circle is not a recovery program, nor is it a substitute for recovery. It is merely an enhancement to our recovery because it allows us to step out of male-dominated mind-sets long enough to look into a different mirror, one that reveals our natural gifts, one that mirrors our true feminine beauty, power, wisdom and magic; one that breaks the chains that bind us! The Circle provides sharing circles, celebrations, studies, education, and new ways of honoring life so we can release ourselves from the bondage of the past and live authentically and freely with dignity and joy in the present. So feel free to join us in our celebration of recovery, reclaiming, and the joys of womanhood. Remember: To Thine Own Self be True! Mama J |



